Catherine Tidd
Will Fixing You Fix Me?
I just got back from a walk and, for the first time in a while, I felt like writing. Actually, I shouldn't say that. I always feel like...
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Catherine Tidd
- Oct 4, 2020
- 3 min
Dealing With a HUGE Secondary Loss: You
Last week I was on my walk and listening to an old Oprah interview that she's now recycling on her podcast, Super Soul Sunday. This topic...
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Catherine Tidd
- May 18, 2020
- 3 min
Packing and Purging: Do Normal People Cry Over Old Phone Bills?
In the last few weeks, I've been dealing with what a lot of you have already been through: the ordeal of packing up my house and getting...
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Catherine Tidd
- Mar 9, 2020
- 3 min
When the News Makes You Feel More Widowed
Thank God for streaming services. I feel like these days I'm dodging my local news like landmines. The other day, my mom was telling me...
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Catherine Tidd
- Feb 14, 2020
- 3 min
Valentine's Day: The Best Way to Acknowledge It is to Acknowledge Others
It’s time to address it. The day that has widows all over the world saying, “Shit. It’s here again already?” Valentine’s Day. Now, as I...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 28, 2020
- 2 min
You don't have to justify the way you feel to anyone
Have you ever felt like you have to justify your emotions? If you haven't, you're much more self-aware than I am. And while I'm starting...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 12, 2020
- 2 min
Damn, That Was Hard
Last week, I started thinking about my first years as a widow - I'm not really sure why. As anyone who has experienced a loss (or, in...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 8, 2020
- 3 min
All the Single Ladies...Do We WANT To Put A Ring On It?
Ahhh…dating. Sooner or later this becomes every widow’s favorite topic with other widows. And there is a very good reason for this:...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 3 min
Along for the Ride: Being the "extra" in a group of couples
I've written many a blog about being the third, fifth, seventh, or 21st wheel in a group of couples. Truth be told, it used to really...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 3 min
Fearing Joy and Dress-Rehearsing Tragedy
I’ve written other posts about happiness – mainly dealing with the idea that I wasn’t sure I deserved it. After all, happiness isn’t owed...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 2 min
There's More to Miss
This isn't going to be one of those really well thought-out posts. I'm just going to type as I think. Scary, I know. You really don't...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 3 min
I'm on the Verge
I'm writing this on my back porch. I'm trying to make myself feel better, so I've got a glass of wine, candle lit, a little classical...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 2 min
"The wound is the place the light enters you." -Rumi
I've heard this quote twice today. I believe that when the universe calls, you have to respond. It's been a tough couple of days - you...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 3 min
Overload
I'm not in a great headspace right now, so please forgive me if this turns into a rant. I'm having one of those toddler moments when I...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 2 min
I've Said It Before and I'll Say It Again...
Last night I was on my walk listening to a podcast about moving forward. I know, I know - one of our favorite topics. To reiterate, it...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 1 min
I Lost Him Before You Did
My husband died on July 18, 2007. But that's not the day I lost him. He was in an accident on his way to work on July 16th. Later that...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 5, 2020
- 4 min
Widowhood and Back-to-School: People Aren't Meant to do This Alone
A big part of me has always hated this time of year. I've written about it before - how nothing screams the passage of time as a single...
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Catherine Tidd
- Jan 3, 2020
- 2 min
The Worst Widow
I think I've just gone from a "mediocre widow" to the worst widow. Yesterday was my husband's 47th birthday. I was cranky all day and had...
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